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    It Was the Best of Customer Service, It Was the Worst of Customer Service…

    Monday, July 27th, 2009

    Chris and I just got back from running a few quick errands with the boys before bed time.  One of our stops was to the furniture store Rooms To Go where we were looking for a new entertainment center and possibly a set of couches for our bonus room.  After wandering around the store for almost 25 minutes without having a single sales associate greet us or offer to assist us, I had a question about the entertainment centers.  I managed to track down two gentlemen who had Rooms To Go logos on their shirts and were lounging comfortably in recliners near the entrance of the store.

    “Excuse me, do any of your packages include entertainment centers or are they all sold separately?” I inquired.  “They’re all sold separately,” the older of the two gentleman replied, without making so much as a move to stand up.  He did not offer to help me in any way so Chris and I continued shopping on our own.  The next time we passed him he gave a brief wave and said, “Ya’ll have a good night now.”

    I informed him that we were not actually done shopping at the moment but thanked him very much for the excellent customer service he had provided.  He made a half smile at my obvious sarcasm and said nothing further.  Once again he did not even attempt to rise.  I then asked him his name and where I might be able to find the nearest manager.  He motioned toward the back of the store.  So while Chris loaded the kids back into the car I politely informed the manager that we had come in possibly prepared to spend several thousand dollars in his establishment but were now leaving with no intentions of returning thanks to the lack of customer service we had received.  He of course apologized profusely and explained that dear Larry certainly must have thought someone else was already helping us, and that he was most likely already busy himself or else he surely would not have passed up a chance at a sale.  “He sure does look busy,” I replied and I pointed to the chair where Larry was still lounging.  As I left the manager was having, or at least pretending to have, a little talk with Larry.

    So after the furniture store we had to stop at the grocery store.  We decided that since the boys were getting tired I would run into Publix to pick up the bread and milk while Chris waited in the car with the kids.  Well I had not been in the store for more than two seconds when I was greeted by a friendly sales associate who also asked if she could help me find anything.  And as soon as I approached the front of the store two, yes two, different cashiers indicated with a smile and a wave that their lanes were open for me.  The man who rang me up made eye contact and polite conversation as he bagged my two items.   I left feeling like a generally valued customer, and marveling at the fact that I had just received far superior customer service in a store where I only spent $3.50 to the customer service that I had received in a store where I was prepared to spend thousands.

    Ottawa

    Monday, July 27th, 2009

    These are a bit overdue but I wanted to share some pictures of the city we all fell in love with (some of us for the second time).

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    This is the Chateau Laurier, which is a beautiful old hotel less than a block away from parliament.  Chris and I celebrated our 5 year wedding anniversary at one of the many restaurants inside.  We had an amazing cheese tray, a delicious smoked salmon appetizer, and some very interesting cocktails.

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    The locks on the Rideau canal

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    Several views of Parliament.

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    The view from our room on the 21st floor at Les Suites.  It wasn’t until the rain cleared up on Sunday that we realized there was a spectacular view of the Gatineaus (a group of hills in Quebec) hiding behind all that mist.

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    The changing of the guards on the lawn of Parliament.

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    The art museum…and yes that is a giant spider statue (complete with egg sack) behind my mother’s head.

    And just because Canada is random like that….

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    …A stuatue of Queen Elizabeth on a horse and a stray cat sanctuary that has been set up right behind the Parliament building!

    Hey, HAY, Hey!

    Saturday, July 25th, 2009

    Corbin has an annoying endearing habit of saying, “Hey Mama?” before literally everything he says to me.  He has been known to use the phrase upwards of 20 times in a single conversation.  So just now, after hearing about 16, “Hey Mama’s” in a row, I used one of those terribly trite expressions that every young mother swears she will never use.

    “Corbin, Hay is for horses!” I announced impatiently.

    He thought about this for a moment and replied, “Oh OK,…….Hey Horse?”

    A Gift

    Monday, July 20th, 2009

    Today is Corbin’s and Bennett’s Great Grandmother’s birthday.  The one thing she asked to do on her special day?  To take Corbin out for lunch and watch his face light up when dessert comes to the table!

    This got me thinking about what a precious gift children are.  Their inquisitive natures and loving spirits bring so much joy not only to us but to so many of the people around them.  It is not unusual for one of our boy’s grandparents to stop by unexpectedly just to get a little grandson therapy.  I love that God can use our children to remind us of His pure love for us.

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    Is It a Hard Wiring Issue?

    Friday, July 17th, 2009

    What is it that makes men totally unwilling to admit when they have done something wrong?  I mean seriously, is a basic inability to apologize for making a mistake just hard wired into their DNA?

    My dear charming husband, who ordinarily creates rather than eliminates clutter, threw away my compost box today and refuses to say he is sorry!  Over the last week I have been collecting grass clippings, twigs, banana peels, egg shells, apple cores and coffee grounds and layering them in a large box that we had out in the garage.  I had planned to transfer them to a trash can later today once I had drilled some holes in the sides and bottom (per my lovely friend Kristin’s instructions).  But yesterday on an uncharacteristic cleaning whim, Christopher apparently just threw the whole thing in the trash.  When I noticed that it was gone this morning I called him at work to ask what he had done with it.

    He casually  informed me that he had thrown it all away because, and I quote…..”It was in my way.”

    In his way!?  He parks his car in the driveway and the box was off to one side of the garage….Oh yeah, I can really see how it was obstructing your walk there babe.

    Anyway, back to our phone conversation.  I calmly explained that I had been using the box as a temporary compost container and he admitted to seeing the waste materials in the bottom of the box.  I then waited patiently for him to apologize, but after about 10 seconds of stand-off silence I realized that he planned to do no such thing.  “So…..are you not even going to say you are sorry for throwing away something I had been working on?” I prompted him.  “OK honey,” he replied sarcastically, “I’m really sorry that I threw away trash!”

    Not only did he stubbornly refuse to apologize, but he even went so far as to imply that it was my fault for putting my compost materials into HIS grill box….and yes, that would be the same box that the pricey grill I bought him for father’s day came in.

    Well if that’s the way you wanna play it baby that’s just fine with me.  I was going to let you use some of my compost on the lawn so that your precious grass would grow all lush and beautiful and whatnot.  But now instead I”m gonna start a new compost and in a few months when it has turned into lovely nutrient rich soil, I’m gonna spread it all over my flower beds and not share any of it with you!  Then when the neighbors notice how freakin awesome my flowers look and how embarrassingly crappy your lawn looks by comparison, you’ll be wishing you had just sucked it up and apologized to me in the first place!!  Muahhahaha!!!!!

    Take that evil-doer.

    Timmy’s Run Anyone?

    Thursday, July 16th, 2009

    If you have been to Ontario Canada any time in the last two decades then you are well aware of the cultural phenomenon that is Tim Horton’s.  Tim Horton’s, or ‘Timmy’s’ as it is most commonly referred to, is a reasonably priced, deliciously blended, beautifully efficient coffee, doughnut and sandwich shop that can be found on just about every street corner and interstate exit in Canada.

    I love Timmy’s for a number of reasons, not the least of which being its general lack of pretense (you know, the kind that one tends to encounter at certain other chain coffee shops that shall remain nameless).  Timmy’s is totally comfortable with what it is – good, no frills coffee at good, no frills prices.  Whether you are the CEO of a large corporation or a Toronto trash collector, Timmy’s considers you its equal.

    Being the mega coffee addicts that we are, making a daily (or sometimes thrice daily) Timmy’s run was an absolute necessity during our Canadian adventure.  And we quickly learned that this mecca of coffee shops appeals to family members of all ages.  One day as we were making the five hour trip from Ottawa to Toronto, we realized that things had been very quiet in the back seat for quite some time.  When we turned around to investigate we were astonished to see a large Timmy’s box balanced on Bennett’s car seat. He was clenching a doughnut in each hand and he wore a delighted grin on his maple frosting covered face.

    We still have no clue how he got a hold of the box, which I could have sworn I had placed well out of reach.  But regardless of how he got his hands on them I elected not to confiscate these particular items of contraband. I mean after all, the delicious doughnuts were keeping our little screamer quiet.  Plus everyone knows you should never come between a man and his Timmy’s!

    I did however manage to snap a picture or two in between my fits of laughter.

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    Now You’ve Done It

    Tuesday, July 14th, 2009

    Warning: What you are about to experience is a Katie rampage of epic proportions (think back to my Wal-Mart blog then multiply it by 100). So if you are a relatively even tempered and/or ‘there are two sides two every story’ kind of person I strongly suggest you stop reading right about HERE.

    Now for those of you who have chosen to stick around, what do you say we grab a seat and share a slice of good old fashioned indignation shall we? What has gotten me all riled up, ticked off and otherwise down and out you ask? Male infidelity, that’s what.

    Now before you start wondering whose bed young Christopher’s boots have been under these days let me just say for the record: we are perfectly fine. In fact we are better than fine. We have just celebrated our five year wedding anniversary and we are so excited to still be at the beginning of this thing. While we were on vacation we talked a lot about the future. There are so many places we would like to go and things that we would like to do together. Which might be part of the reason that I am so agitated by this growing trend of infidelity and abandonment. I am completely baffled by all the stories I am hearing of husband’s stepping out on their wives and the futures they had planned together.

    If I have to hear about one more middle aged married man fooling around with one more wide eyed perky chested twenty something year old woman I honestly think I might explode. In the media, in the business world and in the church, adulterous men seem to be everywhere you look these days and at some point you just have to ask yourself – WHY?

    Why would you get married in the first place if you weren’t done sewing your oh so wild oats?
    Why do you think you are such a great catch that you can do better than the woman who has cared for you, loved you and raised your children?
    Why would you hang around for the grueling years while your kids are all consuming and your money is tight only to bail out right before you get to the good stuff!?

    Now I know that women cheat too, and I also know that there really are two sides to every story, but frankly there is one story that I seem to be hearing over and over these days and it goes something like this:
    Man marries woman. Man and woman produce children. Woman sacrifices body, career and sanity to raise said children. Man loses interest in woman and finds new woman whose body, career and sanity are still in tact.

    Now the problem with this little scenario seems obvious. Assuming that man marries said new woman, it is only a matter of time until the new woman becomes the old woman and the cycle starts all over again. In theory, as long as the money holds out (cause lets face it here guys, its not your youthful spirit and mature physique that these young girls are so attracted to) this could go on for decades; which is how we end up with such noble characters as Hugh Hefner and J Howard Marshall II.

    Corbin Quotable

    Saturday, July 11th, 2009

    Last week Corbin was trying to convince his father that Bennett runs on gasoline. This was his arguement:

    “There are three kinds of gasoline. The kind that has babies and the kind that has cars….and that’s all!”

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    Ending on a High Note

    Friday, July 10th, 2009

    We ended our great Canadian adventure at the home of my mother’s childhood friend Linda.  Linda’s husband Jerry is the owner of a popular racing team on the Canadian Nascar circuit.  He also has just about every toy and machine that any male could ever want and around 100 acres of beautiful land  on which to play.  Over the course of two days my boys got behind the wheel of  a 4 wheeler, a tractor, a ride on lawn mower, and more trucks, Nascars and classic cars that I have room to mention.  Not surprisingly, getting my men to leave yesterday was no small feat!  The tractor was Corbin’s personal favorite.

    Coming Home

    Saturday, July 4th, 2009

    We are staying in downtown Ottawa right now.  Our hotel is a block away from the Parliament building, the Chateau Laurier and the canal. Ottawa is where my  family lived 20 years ago before we immigrated to the United States, and even after all of this time there is something about this place that feels like home to me.

    This morning we watched the changing of the guards on the lawn of the Parliament building, and I have to say that the experience was strangely moving for me.  I stood there with my American husband and sons, on the forth of July, watching a patriotic Canadian event.  And while one part of me felt somehow disloyal to a country that I love, that has given me a home and a family over the course of the last two decades; another part of me felt proud and finally connected to the country of my birth.

    Patriotism is something I have never really understood.  In fact I think in some ways I have even viewed it as being a somewhat arrogant emotion.  But what I am beginning to realize is that what patriotism is, at its core, is identifying with and being connected to a place and a people group for which one has a deep sense of respect.

    In that way I think that the fourth of July was a perfect day for me to experience patriotism for the first time.   Because along with a renewed sense of being connected to my own heritage and identity, I have also gained a new found respect and admiration for my American friends and loved ones who feel that same sense of pride and oneness with the country of their birth.