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    Free Niagara

    Monday, June 29th, 2009

    Well we are now on day four of our vacation and the trip up here went great.  We were so impressed with how well the kiddos did in the car and it seemed like we were here in no time.  Right now we are staying with my Aunt and Uncle in Kitchener and I have no idea how we are going to convince the boys to leave.  They are both totally enthralled with their cousin Jordyn who is the four year old daughter of my cousin Kristie….which would actually make them second or third cousins I think…but I digress.

    We went to Niagara Falls today and it was beautiful.  We rode the giant Ferris wheel and then spent over an hour just sitting under a shade tree and enjoying the view.  Since we got here the weather has been in the mid 70’s and wonderful.  This has gotten Chris and I thinking that maybe we should start making an annual July trek up north.  The day after tomorrow is July 1, which is Canada’s independence day and by that time we will be in Toronto with some family friends.  I am taking all kinds of pictures but of course I forgot to bring the cord that connects the camera to the computer.  Oh well, at least I remembered the passports.  Losing those was my biggest fear coming into this trip!

    I think I’ll end the post with a few vacation quotables from the men in my family:

    (In the car on the way up here this exchange took place)

    Papa: Look at that cloud Corbin, it kind of looks like a poodle.  In fact it kind of looks like Bingley.

    Corbin: Bingley is NOT a poodle Papa.

    (And the following comments were made at different times after our trip to Niagara Falls today)

    Papa:  Gotta love socialized medicine, the Niagara is free! (Papa does love a good pun)

    Corbin: Papa, I think you are losing your mind.

    Stepping Out

    Thursday, June 25th, 2009

    Well tomorrow is the big day.  My dad, the boys and I will pick Chris up after work and then we will head up to Kentucky to meet up with my mom.  (She’s been on a quilting retreat this week)  We are planning to spend the night in Ohio and then drive the last 6 hours up to Kitchener the next morning.  Tonight I am feeling a good mix of excitement and anxiety.   I am just hoping the boys can hold off on their naps tomorrow so that they will sleep in the car.

    Packing for four people, cleaning up the house and taking care of the boys has made for a pretty crazy day.  Unfortunately Bingley was left feeling a bit neglected in  the midst of all the chaos and he decided to show his distaste for the situation….. by pooping all over the living room and hallway floor…..and smearing it into the carpet.

    I have two thoughts on this subject:

    1) I don’t think it was a coincidence that he left one of his little ‘presents’ right next to the suitcase I was packing.

    2) I hope Chris’ parents’ new puppy nips and annoys the hell out of him while we are away.

    In other more joyful and/or less disgusting news:  Bennett took his first steps this week!  He is getting more and more confidant on his feet and I have a feeling he will be walking by the time we get home.  I am going to try to post some pictures and updates from the road.

    Death Wish Dave Strikes Again

    Wednesday, June 17th, 2009

    Bennett is a total desrtucto dog.  In the last few days he has back flipped off the couch, taken a head dive off the bed and rolled down half a flight of stairs: and all of this while under adult supervision.  Its not that we’re slacking, he’s just that freaking fast and/or hell bent on self annihilation.  So its here where that pesky impulse to compare one child to another comes into play.

    Corbin has just always been an extremely careful kid.  When you tell him that something it hot his logical little mind concludes, “I shouldn’t touch that.”  When a door is closing his self protective instincts tell him to retract his fingers; and when he is climbing on, well anything, he moves slowly and deliberately and is careful not to stand up too close to an edge.   Now I know that one major difference in my children’s perception of danger is age, but I swear that Corbin was careful even as a baby.  He has never fallen off of anything.  Bennett makes it a daily routine.

    Anyway, the whole thing is really starting to wear us out.  When Chris and I were dating we used to joke that if our kids turned out anything like their daddy they would need to be in helmets from day one.  So maybe that combined with elbow and knee pads, only stuffed toys and a completely padded room might afford us a moment of peace.  My real fear is that if its this bad right now, what the heck are we going to do when he starts walking!?

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    Oh Canadi!

    Saturday, June 13th, 2009

    I am so excited because today we finally got the boys’ passports in the mail.  (And let me just tell you, NEVER have two such adorable photographs been featured on a piece of international identification!….Seriously, I would put the pictures up here to prove it if not for the whole identity theft thing.)

    Anyway, back to my excitement.  In exactly two weeks we are planning to take the boys up to Ontario.  Neither of them have ever been out of the country and I just can’t wait to show them where Nana, Mommy and Aunt Jaki are from.  The best part is that we are going with my parents, which is a very favorable adult to child ratio for a vacation.  We are going to take two cars and two days to get up there.  (I’ll give you just a minute for that to sink in)

    Yup.  That’s right, we are just crazy enough to drive all the way to another country with two toddler boys who until now have never done a car trip of more than 7 1/2 hours.  But hey, its only 13 hours to London Ontario and did I mention the grandparents?  I mean how bad could it be ;)

    Anyway, we are all pretty excited about our upcoming trip and Corbin has even started learning the words to ‘Oh Canada’ in preparation.  Of course his version of the anthem also pays tribute to his favorite Canadian, Nana Di.  It goes, “Oh Canadi!  I love my Nana Di!  Oh Canadi, Oh Cana, Canadi!”

    Sitting in the Ashes

    Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

    I find myself so often wishing that I could do more for the people I love.  That I could say or do the right thing to ease their pain, their hurt, their fear.  I have a bad habit of empathizing to the point where I am rendered entirely useless.  I fixate so intently on the emotional aspect of a situation that I fail to notice the practical needs that I actually could be helping to meet.  Although I believe that the ability to empathize comes from God I also believe that the perversion of empathy can be (like so many other perversions of something good) terribly selfish.  I mean who I am to take someone else’s suffering, someone else’s journey, and make it all about me?

    I have a feeling that when God told us to bear one another’s burdens he didn’t mean this.  He didn’t say sit down by yourself and think really hard about how you might feel if you were in that person’s situation and then get yourself into a really deeply useless funk about it.  I could be wrong, but I don’t get the impression that when Job’s friends came and sat with him in the ashes of his former life they were grieving because they were thinking about how much it would have sucked if instead God had asked the devil to consider them.  I think they were grieving because they loved Job.  Because they saw that he was broken in every possible way and they hated to see him suffer.  Like I said, maybe I’m wrong, but I really do wish that I personally could learn how to love the people that I love better when they find themselves in times of crisis.  I wish that instead of being so arrogant as to think that I can or should somehow fix their problems I would go immediately to the only one who is able and intercede on my friend’s behalf.

    Brotherly Love

    Sunday, June 7th, 2009